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Instead, Brothwell said the sender, Marin Haugo, invited him to discuss potential matches through Maar Dating Club NYC. During their meeting, the matchmaker appeared to have done little research into his background.\u00a0<\/p>\n

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\u201cIt felt like when a headhunter contacts you, and they just did a very cursory search,\u201d Brothwell told Fortune<\/em>. \u201cShe didn\u2019t actually look into it because all her clients are based in New York. I live in Asheville, North Carolina.\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n

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Brothwell said the matchmaker reassured him that distance wouldn\u2019t be an issue, and suggested he fly to New York for dates if necessary, a comment that made him suspect her clients were in \u201cdifferent tax brackets\u201d than most.<\/p>\n

\u201cThere was a weird angle of, \u2018I have wealthy clients, and I\u2019m gonna try to find someone who\u2019s just excited to date somebody wealthy,\u2019\u201d Brothwell said. \u201cEverything just felt like it was maybe a little bit more than met the eye.\u201d<\/p>\n

Brothwell never met any of the matchmaker\u2019s clients after the meeting, which he said took place three years ago. He said Haugo stopped responding when he told her he was a nonfiction author and was participating for research purposes. Brothwell assumed it was because Haugo feared being written about on his blog. Haugo did not respond to Fortune\u2019s<\/em> request for comment.<\/p>\n

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LinkedIn\u2019s romance problem<\/h2>\n

The encounter illustrates an uncomfortable tension on LinkedIn: Some users and matchmakers treat the professional network as a source for romantic prospects, even though the company explicitly prohibits members from using it to pursue them.<\/p>\n

\u201cLinkedIn is a professional networking platform, not a dating site,\u201d\u00a0 LinkedIn\u2019s professional community policies state. \u201cDo not use LinkedIn to pursue romantic connections, ask for romantic dates, or provide sexual commentary on someone\u2019s appearance or perceived attractiveness.\u201d<\/p>\n

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But a June Zety survey of more than 1,000 U.S. employees found that one in four believe it\u2019s \u201cfair game\u201d for romantic advances. The survey also found that 22% had reached out or responded to someone on LinkedIn with romantic intent, while 12% had formed a romantic relationship that originated on LinkedIn.\u00a0<\/p>\n

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LinkedIn says it removes unwanted advances on the platform and sexually explicit material.\u00a0<\/p>\n

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In the second half of 2025, LinkedIn removed 477,911 comments that provoked harassment or abuse and 80,806 comments that used adult language or imagery using its harmful message detector, according to LinkedIn\u2019s transparency report. The advanced safety detector, which screens incoming messages for policy violations, must be manually enabled by users.<\/p>\n

\u201cOur focus is on making sure that people are safe from unwanted romantic advances, which do go against our professional community policies,\u201d a LinkedIn spokesperson told Fortune<\/em>.<\/p>\n

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If a user violates one of LinkedIn\u2019s policies, the platform sends a warning, and repeated violations often result in restricted access to LinkedIn features. In the most serious violations, a user may be permanently banned from the platform.<\/p>\n

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Why LinkedIn has become a dating-vetting tool<\/h2>\n

Searching a person\u2019s public profile before a date is different from using LinkedIn\u2019s messaging tools to make an unsolicited romantic advance\u2014and more closely resembles the kind of online due diligence that has become routine in app-based dating.\u00a0<\/p>\n

\u201cWith over 100 million verified members, it\u2019s not a surprise that people come to LinkedIn,\u201d the LinkedIn spokesperson said.<\/em> \u201cBut LinkedIn is a platform for professional growth and career advancement, not finding a date.\u201d<\/p>\n

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Nevertheless, online daters use LinkedIn as a vetting tool, with almost half of Zety\u2019s survey respondents believing that information posted to the platform is more reliable than jobs and college attendance shown on dating apps such as Hinge.<\/p>\n

While LinkedIn matchmakers are strictly prohibited under the platform\u2019s guidelines, professional matchmakers recommend researching potential partners online, including scanning their LinkedIn profiles.<\/p>\n

\u201cRelationship-minded singles are increasingly frustrated and fatigued by fake profiles, misleading information, safety concerns, and the lack of context on dating apps,\u201d the director of coaching at The Matchmaking Company, Heather Drury, told Fortune. <\/em>\u201cAs a result, singles have become their own private investigators. Some are turning to LinkedIn as an additional tool in their vetting process.\u201d<\/p>\n

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The Matchmaking Company is a family-owned and operated matchmaking firm with brick-and-mortar locations in 24 states. The company has previously used LinkedIn to scout potential matches for its clients.<\/p>\n

\u201cProfessional photos, career history, education, connections, interests, and community involvement can offer additional context that may not be available on a traditional dating profile,\u201d Drury said. \u201cFor someone considering whether to meet a potential romantic partner, that additional information [on LinkedIn] can help them feel more informed and comfortable.\u201d<\/p>\n

Instead of prioritizing appearance, which is something only 18% of Gen Z daters rank first in importance, most Gen Z singles look for emotional maturity and kindness in potential partners instead, according to a survey conducted by the luxury dating site Seeking.<\/p>\n

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The survey also found that Gen Z prioritizes specific qualities such as shared values, ambition, and generosity.<\/p>\n

\u201cI find myself gravitating towards the same familiar social circles, and in that sense, university or professional career become big cues for me in determining that alignment,\u201d a New York University freshman, who asked to remain anonymous, told Fortune<\/em>.\u00a0<\/p>\n

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A separate February survey from Resume Templates revealed that 92% of single LinkedIn users have used the platform to research online app matches before their first date, specifically paying attention to current job status, mutual connections, academic background, and endorsements. Additionally, 88% of LinkedIn users have used the platform to check up on an ex-partner or former romantic interest.<\/p>\n

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\u201cUsing LinkedIn has become a natural part of online dating,\u201d the student said.<\/em> \u201cIn online dating, where the amount of disclosed information is so limited and social media presence is often highly filtered or non-existent for guys, LinkedIn becomes a surprisingly telling and rich source of information.\u201d<\/p>\n

For some daters, that extra context isn\u2019t simply curiosity. It can also feel like a safety check in an online-dating environment where users may worry about scams, harassment, or whether a match is accurately representing themselves.<\/p>\n

Two-thirds of dating app users have reported instances of cyberstalking facilitated by dating apps, and 48% reported experiences of online interpersonal violence, including receiving unsolicited sexual pictures or messages, name-calling, and even threats of physical violence, according to a study published in the Asian Journal of Criminology last year.<\/p>\n

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In addition, information displayed on dating app profiles makes it easy for cyberstalkers to find users\u2019 other online profiles, such as LinkedIn, or to find them through simple Google searches, stripping away the relative anonymity and safety barriers on dating apps.<\/p>\n

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